Chin Flick Gesture: 4 Potential Meanings (2024)

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Last Updated: April 3, 2023Fact Checked

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   Most often, the chin flick means “I don’t care.” The most common translation for the chin flick is “whatever,” “I couldn’t care less,” or even “I.D.G.A.F.” Most popular in Italy, Tunisia, and Belgium, people flick their chins with a neutral, unbothered face to communicate that they don’t want to do something or don’t think something is worth worrying about. You might flick your chin when:^[1]

   • A friend makes a mistake and you want to show them it’s no biggie.
   • Someone asks you to make a choice, but you don’t feel any type of way toward either option.
   • You want to shut down an annoying or unpleasant conversation.
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   Sometimes, the chin flick can mean “get lost.” In Belgium, Italy, and Tunisia especially, the chin flick can also be used as a substitute for the middle finger to flip someone off. If someone seems angry or confrontational, odds are they’re flicking their chin to say “up yours!” You might flick your chin at someone when:^[2]

   • They cut you off in traffic.
   • They try to drag or insult you.
   • They’re being offensive in public.

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   In Italy, the chin flick can mean a simple “no.” In some parts of Italy, the chin flick can just be a nonverbal alternative to saying “no” or “non.” If someone offers you something you don’t feel like taking, simply flick your chin if you don’t feel like talking.^[3]

   • Always clarify the meaning of the chin flick with people in your area beforehand. Every region is different and you don’t want to accidentally be disrespectful.
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   In France, people chin flick to show their swag or convey boredom. In French, the chin flick is also known as “c'est la barbe” or “the beard.” Sometimes, people will use this gesture as a way to act macho and show swagger earnestly or ironically.^[4] However, “c’est la barbe” also translates to “it is boring” or “what a drag” and people may use the chin flick when they find a particular subject dull.^[5]

   • The French also subscribe to the traditional meaning of the chin flick and use it as a way to say “get lost” or “screw you.”^[6]
   • If someone looks sad or defeated while flicking their chin, they’re likely using the “what a drag” meaning of the “c’est la barbe” gesture.^[7]
   • If someone has a playful or goofy grin, they’re likely using the “c’est la barbe” as a tongue-in-cheek way to show their swagger.

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   Clarify your reasoning if someone brushes you off. If someone uses the chin flick gesture to act passive-aggressive toward you, communicate why you still think the conversation is important. Directly stating what matters may get the other person to change their attitude. Try saying something like:^[8]

   • “You may not care, but I really do, so please pay attention.”
   • “But your opinion on this is important to me.”
   • “Please hear me out. I’ve thought about this a lot.”
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   Clap back if someone flicks their chin to insult you. Stand up for yourself if someone uses a chin flick to drag your character or intelligence. However, instead of stopping to their level by throwing hands or shouting obscenities, try using a quippy comeback to show you’re above this and so are they.^[9]

   • “I’d give you a nasty look for that, but you’ve already got one.”
   • “Someday, you’ll go far. I hope you stay there.”
   • “I’ve been called worse by better.”
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   Walk away if someone is trying to pick a fight with you. Don’t give someone the satisfaction of reacting if they’re intentionally trying to fire you up. Rather than getting in their face, take a deep breath, recognize that their behavior isn’t worth your time, and get as far away from them as possible.^[10]

   • If someone you love uses the chin flick gesture in a derogatory way, communicate that your feelings are hurt before or after taking some distance.

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   Pinch your hand together and place it under your chin. To perform the chin flick gesture, face your palm towards your neck. Then, touch all your fingertips together and bend them about 45° in the direction of your palm. Gently place your pinched hand below your chin.^[11]

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   Quickly flick your fingers outward, brushing them against your chin. Make eye contact with the person you’re flicking your chin at (usually a person you’re arguing with). Then, swiftly flick your fingers forward at them, keeping your fingertips together.^[12]

   • Context is everything with the chin flick. Make a face that compliments your feelings. If you’re upset, show your anger as you flick your hand. If you’re trying to be playful, smile warmly so the person knows you’re joking.

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   Use only one finger if something is really no big deal. Try a more lowkey version of the chin flick by making a hook with just your index finger and grazing just this finger across your chin multiple times. This communicates that you’re open but uncommitted to something, rather than completely uninterested in it.

   • Show the situation is chill with your facial expression, too; tilt your head upward and push your lower lip out ever so slightly.^[13]
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   Flick both hands to emphasize your dismissal. If you really want to shut down a conversation or someone continues to pester you despite your single-handed chin flick, use both hands at the same time to highlight your exasperation.^[14]

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   Use your thumb to say “I told you so.” This is another common French hand gesture. Next time you’re proven right after people didn’t believe you, ball your hand into a fist with your thumb outward. Then, place just your thumb under your chin with the rest of your hand slightly in front of your face. Finally, flick just your thumb across your chin to say “I told you so!”^[15]

   • If your gesture is in good fun and you know people will interpret it as playful, you can give a smug smile or stick your tongue out confidently as you flick your thumb.

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   Place your chin on someone’s palm to do the #FoolInLove challenge. If someone you love sticks their palm out, place your chin directly on their hand to show your affection. This gesture, which resembles a dog lovingly placing their head in the hand of their owner, went viral on TikTok. Now, users all over the world record themselves placing their chin in the palm of their friends, often with the hashtag #FoolInLove (which has amassed 350,000,000+ views).^[16]

   • Other hashtags for this gesture include #IAmYourValentine and #ChinOnPalmChallenge.
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   Stroke or scratch your chin when you’re deep in thought. Carefully stroke your chin to show you’re pensively lost in thought or analyzing a situation. You can use this gesture to signify that you’re considering your options when given a choice.^[17]

   • For an easy TikTok dance move, try doing the chin stroke directly to the camera. Then, flick your hand away from your face and walk out of frame.

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